Communication is important. Whether it's in your job, your romantic relationship, or just your day to day contact with people...your life can be very directly affected by communication (or lack there of) with those around you.
Right now, I'm feeling really horrible about myself.
My grandmother has Alzheimer's and despite my family's best efforts, she was recently moved into a nursing home facility about 3 weeks ago. Prior to this, my family (parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) was taking turns giving her around-the-clock care. A couple months ago I signed up to come for a few days to help take care of her.
When I found out she was no longer going to be living at home, I assumed I wouldn't be needed for the three days I had originally been scheduled for...since she was going to be receiving care from the nursing home staff. I knew my grandparents would still enjoy frequent visitors, so James and I were planning on stopping by to see them on Christmas Eve before going to Margie's.
I just got a call from my uncle wondering why I wasn't in Junction City with Grandma and Grandpa. He told me I still scheduled to be there for the next three days to help keep my grandpa company. I, of course, start crying because I feel terrible. I really had no idea they were expecting me to be there. And because I thought I didn't need to be there, I had made appointments to go look at houses this week.
So now I'm left to decide whether or not I should drop everything, cancel my appointments, and head to JC or if I should stick with my original plan of going to visit them on Christmas Eve. I hate to let down my family by not going, but if I do go then James and I will have to take separate cars to McPherson this weekend...which means 6 hours of driving alone in possibly bad weather. The other option would be for me to drive the 2 hours to JC today then come back (2 more hours) to get James on Christmas Eve then drive the 3 hours to McPherson together and then the 3 hours back Christmas night. But that seems pretty unreasonable as well...
So basically, I don't know what to do. I've been crying about it for the past two hours.